“I'm sorry, pastor. I just don't feel fed. I'm going to find a church that feeds me.”
One of the hardest critiques a pastor hears is when someone leaves the church say, “I'm not feeling fed. I need to go to a church that feeds me.”
When I ask what they mean by “not being fed,” often, they can't really define it. It's a feeling they can't describe, a need they can't articulate.
But somehow, I, and those in leadership positions, are supposed to meet that unarticulatable (is that a word?) need.
It would be easy to shrug them off as being “consumer Christians” more interested in fuzzy, spiritual feelings and pretty Jesus words than following Jesus in the way of the cross.
We can dismiss them as being more concerned with inner-spirituality than in serving the world in Jesus' name.
We can ignore their concerns, saying that they're what's wrong with North American Christianity: self-centred, self-obsessed, self-satisfied purchasers of goods and services, treating churches as spiritual Wal-Marts rather than people who know their need for salvation.
But then again, who can blame them them? Maybe we've...(whole thing here)